Today is 17th
June.
The thing
special about today is concise and confined. Some people were waiting for this
day to come, must have planned this day minute by minute, and recharged their
phones, the eagerness and hope and fear in their eyes. Some kids of 15-16 must
be having their heartbeats reaching to the optimum intensity unless they were
caught while some ill-doing by someone before. But for the rest of the people,
this day would be just a normal Tuesday as it is in every week. A day following
Monday and a day preceding Wednesday.
Today is the result of 10th standard, SSC.
What is a 10th
Std? It is as important as the final exam of the senior year of the high
school. After which, on your academic marks (score), depends which college will
accept you. Better the college, better the chances of the future.
10th
in India is one of the most Hyped phenomenon in a student’s life. It is said to
be the stepping stone of the kids’ career. It was different some 10 years ago.
Your score decided which stream you would go for. Least score window meant
Commerce, Medium score window meant Arts and Better score window meant Science.
Somewhere someone might choose Diploma, which is a sugar coated face-off
engineering I would say. But now things have changed. Kids go where they want
to if college puts up their name, in the lists they release which contains the
name of the students which the college (here, high school) is ready to accept
for the year.
I agree that
it is important, but people do not understand that the times have changed and
there is a lot more in this world to do apart from Arts, Commerce and Science.
Even though one chooses the stream of his choice, it may not be like, he is
getting the exact subject he really want to study and flourish in. he has to go
through something that he never wants, or something that is not going to make
one bit difference to his entire life that he is going to lead.
This is not the fault of the subject. It is the fault of the system – educational system.
This is not the fault of the subject. It is the fault of the system – educational system.
Unfortunately,
the system cannot be changed. But what can be changed is the attitude. I have
seen parents pressurizing their kids to bring good marks. I have seen them
comparing their own kids with the better competitors in their class or area.
Some even threaten kids. Why? Because, they should not be let down if all other
kids get more marks, and the kid should get a better college.
What I have to say is, ask the kid what he wants to do and let him decide the
score for him. If the kid wants to do a business, why torture the kid by making
him study at IAS level? And at 16, Kids are sane and sound. If they know how to
lose their virginity by 16, they know what they have to do to pamper themselves
for their careers.
And it would
not have been this much of problem, if the limit of “good marks” was set at
something. People are just not satisfied with anything. My cousin was in 10th,
it is his result today. His mother is over ambitious with him…I mean too much. It’s
a joke in our family that on the first day of my cousin’s exam, people called
his mother to wish her luck and completely forgot that it’s her son who is
going to give the exam. 100% is the highest one could get. “The Percent” means “of
them”. And according to me 80% is a decent score. It needs hard work,
dedication, talent and a lot of study to acquire this number. I had score
81.23% in my SSC, 6 years back and I knew what I went through to achieve this.
I am not talented or extra-ordinary. Few are, I am not talking about them. But what
about the rest of them who are compared to them and forced and tortured to be
one of them? For my poor cousin, the scales of scores are marked this way –
91% - 93% =
He got less marks.
93% - 95% = this
is what the minimum he is supposed to get. Nothing big.
95% - 97% = the
kid has put some efforts they would say.
97% and
above = Yes, he has scored very well.
Though the
number just grows by two, the efforts and hard work to jump to that two, is in
multiples.
People claim
and pretend that they are not like the parents who force their kids to get such
marks. They say they have told their kid just to give his 100% and whatever
marks he will obtain will be accepted and celebrated. However, what happens
behind the closed doors of the study room is only known by that, unfortunate
kid and his unkind parents.
Why do we do
all this? To become big? I am not giving people an excuse but I want them to
keep in mind these examples.
Sachin
Tendulkar, Bill Gates, Charlie Chaplin, Steve Jobs…these are the few that are
on top of my mind right now. If I Google, the number would just go on.
These people have put themselves above the pinnacles in their fields. Everyone was
a dropout.
Good grades
are not everything. The life and mentality of that kid is.
“I was born
intelligent, education ruined me!” I believe this saying sometimes. Education
is the framework for your vision, agreed!
However, the
frame sets its limitation too.
Do not run
for education, run for knowledge. Do not go for marks, go for information. Do
not go for biggest college, coz what is inside you is going to make you big.
Maybe the
best of the education will create an extra-ordinary person. But what is created
by the knowledge and instinct is a person above the excellence of any extra-ordinary.
Where
syllabus ends, a visionary is born!
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